Her approach is nuanced. She acknowledges that, in some couples, communication has broken down and mutual listening has disappeared. But she refuses to place the sole responsibility on women. According to her, some men remain emotionally immature, unable to take responsibility for their choices. Instead of engaging in dialogue, they avoid it. Instead of questioning themselves, they downplay their actions. Understanding the past, childhood experiences, or unresolved wounds can shed light on certain behaviors, without justifying them.
This account is not intended to provoke or trivialize. It invites us to consider infidelity not as an isolated act, but as a symptom of a deeper unease. Understanding the motivations does not mean forgiving or staying. However, it can help in rebuilding oneself, in not bearing the burden of betrayal alone, and in initiating a more lucid reflection on the relationship. Ultimately, infidelity rarely stems from simple desire, but often from a lack of communication, emotional maturity, and courage. What if, instead of looking for someone to blame, we began by listening more closely to what remains unspoken in relationships?
